Atomic habits

emotional intelligence , book-notes , how igor ticks

Habits are the automatic actions, both positive and negative, you take through your life. Atomic Habits describes how to change habits, it’s the how-to manual for “Sharpening the Saw”.

Big Ideas

Systems more important then goals

Goals are point in time, systems are like the drip, drip, drip of daily improvement. Hi reps, low weight. Habit stacking Systems drive input KPIs. Output KPIs lag input KPIs. A easy way to say this is “Compensation lags competence”

Habits in context

Your identity re-enforces your habits, which intern creates your outcomes.

  • Identity
  • Habits
  • Outcome

Habit model

Lets go back to that other idea: How a habit is formed.

State Description Negative Positive
Cue Thing that kicks off the thought Hang with friends Sit on Mediation Bench
Craving The desired state Relaxed Buzz Calm mind/being a meditator
Response The action, aka habit Drinking the beer Meditating
Reward Achieving the desired state Being Buzzed Being Calm/Feeling like a meditator

Another habit I have is playing on the command line (both writing and updating my shell)

State Actions
Cue Opening blink
Craving Be a command line guru/writer
Response Playing with command line/blog
Reward Feeling like a command line guru/writer

Changing habits

State Adding Removing
Cue Make it obvious and visible Make it invisible
Craving Make it attractive Make it displeasing
Response Make it easy Make it hard
Reward Make it satisfying Make it unsatisfying

Encouraging more magic

State Actions
Cue Seeing kids/being bored
Craving The feeling of smoothness of magic
Response Carry a fanny pack with everything in it
Reward Thinking how much people will enjoy magic

Behavior change modelt map

Tiny habits has a simpler behavior change model, mapping it

Tiny Habit Atomic Habit
Prompt Cue
Ability Response
Motivation Craving, Reward

Creating new Cues

You need to make the cue obvious, and there are two ways:

  1. Set a date and time intention
  2. Tie it to another habit.

Working backwards - Who do you want to be

Think about the habits that the person you want to be. What habits will they have? What habits will they not have, then tackle that.

The change cycle: Plan; Execute; Audit; Adjust

Tiny Habits

Desiging for behavior change

You’ll only act with a prompt (Cue), but your likely hood of taking action is dependant on your ability and motivation.

When making change, motivation is hardest to change, and wanes the most, so tackle prompt first, and then ability, and lastly motivation.

Add table, prompt, ability, motivation

Prompt, Ability, Motivation.

TODO: Contrast this with the Be Proactive, which focus on motivation, not prompts and motivation

Start by Prompt,

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